Interview with Miss Sammy, FEMDOM LARGER THAN LIFE

Sammy Rei Schwarz is a “benevolently sadistic virtual Domina, erotica author, and pet-owning Giantess.” She offers services in the realm of female domination and size fetish via audio and photo content, live phone or chat sessions, and written erotica. She has penned short stories such as “Date with a Giantess,” “Symbiotic: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Being a Cam Girl’s Sex Toy” (which won first place for “Sexiest” in the April 2020 Size Riot writing contest) and “Boundless” (which was published in the Cleis Press anthology Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Vol. 1). Miss Sammy integrates her work as a Domina and author, modeling for most of her own cover artworks and drawing inspiration for her writing from play sessions with her clients. Additionally, she has been quoted and sought out by many news organizations such as the Pittsburgh City Paper for an article entitled “What is giantess porn?” Additionally, Sammy’s opinions were solicited by the British news site METRO for an article called “Meet the woman who squashes men for sexual pleasure as a giantess” and for a lifestyle article about the rise of people who identify as bisexual and their struggles to be recognized as valid. Fans can follow Miss Sammy, purchase her content, or schedule a session through one of the many sites listed here.

#1) Can you tell the readers a little about yourself?

I’m just a 30-year-old introverted bookworm with some dirty secrets, living on the west coast with the love of my life. Due to some chronic health issues, I quit my former teaching job and decided to try my hand at adult entertainment. It turned out to be a lot more than a job; it’s a passion which I continue to rediscover every day. Outside of my passion for kink and sexuality, I enjoy playing music, reading comic books, and volunteering with animals.

#2) How did you first become interested in erotic themes such as domination and size fetish?

I think I was born kinky, or at least the seed was planted so early I can’t remember. Whether it was nature or nurture, I’ve always been attracted to bondage, domination, and submission. As a kid, I didn’t make my dolls kiss so much as I made them torture each other! It was a while until I really understood why the torture scene in “The Princess Bride” was so deeply engrossing to me, but the inclination was certainly there from an early age.

At the same time, I was a dreamy, imaginative, misfit kid, who loved reading fantasy and sci-fi books about other worlds and the creatures that inhabited them. I can remember vividly imagining what it would be like to be a giantess, trailing my fingers along the tops of the trees or the buildings–so above it all—and finding this image very calming. But I never made any sexual connections to it until I started my erotic work a few years ago and learned about the existence of size fetish. It clicked for me, and I haven’t looked back.

What attracted me to the realm of FemDom also attracts me to size fetish: the fantasy of dominance and control, and achieving the perfect balance of cruelty and benevolence. Unlike with “normal” FemDom, as a Giantess, I get to play with power far beyond the ordinary. As amazing as it would be if size tech became a reality, I also appreciate size kink for thinking beyond what’s possible. I truly believe that sex takes place between the ears, so having to get really creative to participate in size play means it never gets boring for me. People that limit their sexual fantasies to everyday reality are missing out!

#3) Do you have a favorite story or video that you’ve produced?

I have an ongoing series called “Date With A Giantess” that started with an improvised erotic audio in which I roleplayed a woman who lures the listener home from a bar, shrinks them, and thoroughly uses them as her human sex toy. It turned into an almost hour-long explicit size extravaganza, which I enjoyed so much that I also turned it into a written erotica of the same name. In the short story version, you get all the visual descriptions and inner monologues of the shrunken man that you’d have to imagine in the audio version. I still really enjoy that original audio, but it’s also incredibly long and lacks the polish I’ve developed in later works. Thanks to a patron who commissioned subsequent audios, I’ve been able to continue the series with “Date With A Giantess: Morning After” and “Date With A Giantess: Frisky Business,” which follow what our horny giantess does with her new pet the day after his capture and shrinking. With each explicit audio, I’m incorporating more tools to immerse the listener, including sounds effects and crisper sound quality. Each one is a labor of love that requires countless hours and attention to detail. I’m also moving away from implying the listener is a man, leaving it more open to include my fans of different genders. So as the series grows, I’ve grown along with it (pun intended).

#4) What are a few of your favorite works from other creators?

The size community is so full of brilliant creators spanning numerous genres, so I’d rather not choose any favorites, but I’ve recently enjoyed works by Ana Valens, CobaltDreaming, Elle Largesse, Minutia, Tonto Blackadder, and Tinysupervicki. (Shout out to CobaltDreaming whose art graces the cover of my short story, “Symbiotic: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Being a Cam Girl’s Sex Toy.”)

#5) Is there any advice you could give to other models entering the business?

There is no “easy money” in adult entertainment, no matter what niche. Although it offers flexibility that most other fields do not, you have to be willing to work incredibly hard and solve lots of challenges alone in order to get anywhere with it. It helps to choose niches that you really enjoy, otherwise you’ll run out of ideas quickly. Contrary to popular conception, success in porn is not about how you look or what kind of things you’re willing to do. For most clients, what keeps them around is being able to connect with models that are truly enthusiastic about what they do and are really in tune with the subtleties of their fantasies. I’m not knocking anyone who caters to fetishes that they don’t personally have; that will always be part of the job to some extent. I’m just saying, burnout will be much more likely if you try to mold yourself based on the latest craze instead of going for something that actually suits your own interests. My personal fascination with size fantasy has been critical to developing strong relationships with my size loving patrons.

#6) What is the best way for potential clients to express their wants to a professional Domina?

Spend some time checking out her online presence—social media accounts, adult platform profiles, and personal website—to get a feel for what kinds of services she offers and whether she might be a good fit for you. After doing this, send a polite introduction letting her know what kind of services you might be interested in, and inquiring whether she would be available. It always makes a good impression if I can tell the person has actually read my website or purchased some of my content, and so is already is familiar with what I do. In reaching out, be mindful of her time and respect that she may not want to engage in certain types of conversations with you for free. It’s like contacting a new doctor or therapist—it doesn’t go over well if you contact them out of the blue just to say “hi, what’s up?” or dump a long essay about your childhood into their inbox. We are human beings and professionals; a little common sense and politeness will get you far!

#7) Are there any upcoming projects that you would like to mention?

This year I launched a fan subscription site at AVN Stars. People can connect with me on many adult platforms, but if I had to send folks to just one, I would recommend AVN. It’s a one-stop shop for my latest photos and audios, as well as the occasional video. You can see content I don’t post anywhere else there, especially things that are too juicy for social media. My projects for the year include creating more video content and becoming more inclusive of diverse genders. There are some naughty clips on the way in which I pleasure myself with some helpless little human dildos, and I’ve already begun creating more queer-friendly content. Reflecting the sex industry at large, the majority of my customers are still straight cisgender men, so venturing beyond that won’t be easy. However, with support from the size community, I hope to shift the balance. To help steer the course of my future projects, you can subscribe to my fan page, commission a photo or audio, or even just follow and share on social media.

Thank you very much for this interview!

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